A story I wrote about George Patton
and his dyslexia. I hope you enjoy. By Sam Sagmiller
From:DyslexiaMyLife.org
I loved to listen to my dad's World War II stories, perhaps
as much as he loved to tell them. Many a Sunday after church, stomach
pleasantly full of roast beef or fried chicken, I would sit back in my chair at
the round oak table in our dining room, ready to be transported into a world of
heroes. Often my father's stories were about General George Patton, whom Dad
idolized. "General Patton was a
great general and a great
American," he would intone, telling the story of how
Patton or the tale of Patton working with the troops, treating each one as his
son and they looked up to him as if he was their dad. My dad also talked about
the time he met or should I saw say General Patton while he was in the army at
the end of World War II, How Patton commanded everyone's attention, bigger than
life as Patton passed by in his jeep. Fully of integration and determination of
what had to been done.
I wanted to be just like General Patton. Playing war with the neighborhood kids, armed
with snowball artillery, I would strike a confident pose atop a hill of snow, a
glint of assurance in my eyes, imagining that I was Patton, about to lead my
troops forward to overtake the enemy.
But the pride I felt on this pretend battlefield was a fleeting emotion,
one I rarely experienced outside of play.
For I had dyslexia, a learning disability that made it hard
for me to read and write. At school, I was engaged in my own private war, one
where victories were few. No matter how hard I tried, I couldn't seem to catch
on to reading and writing, that seemed to come so easily to other students my
age.
Every day I would be banished from the classroom to go to my
special reading class. I watched the second
hand circling the clock at the front of the classroom, hoping that for once,
the teacher would forget to dismiss me, dreading the moment when she would
announce, "Will the slower readers please join Ms. White in the hall
outside the classroom." Rising from
my seat, I would steel myself to ignore the whispered potshots of other
children: "Hey stupid, time for
your idiot class"; "Will all the dummies meet Ms. White
outside?"
Hanging my head in shame I walked slowly down the aisle,
joining other members of the special group, as the teacher paused in her
lesson, awaiting our departure. The
other special students and I followed our reading teacher toward the janitor's
storage room, the only space available for us, where we would meet amidst mops
and brooms, in an atmosphere pervaded by the smell of cleaning fluid. As we trooped down the hall, we maintained
silence, hoping not to attract attention from children in other classes. Dispirited captives, we felt as if we were
about to face a firing squad.
The best method for teaching dyslexic individuals to read is
phonics, helping them link the letters on a page with sounds. But phonics was out of fashion in my
school. Instead, throughout the years my
special Ed teachers experimented with the latest flashcards, slides, and games,
in an effort to find the magical teaching tool that would help me perform like
the rest of the class. One year I was even given a special desk, placed to one
side of the regular classroom, a desk surrounded by walls so high that I could
neither see out nor be seen as I listened to tapes drilling me in subjects like
grammar and spelling. "See, Sam,
isn't this nice?" said the teacher enthusiastically. " You've got your own private study
nook, to help you concentrate and not be distracted." But the teacher's
sales pitch did nothing to soften the humiliation I felt in being isolated like
a P.O.W.
Most painful were my experiences with teachers who viewed me
as stupid, lazy, and inconvenient. But
these experiences paled beside the terroristic tactics of one student teacher
assigned to my reading group. This
teacher sometimes grew so frustrated with the reading difficulties that he
would grab us out of our chairs and shake us, his red, tense face pinched into
a scowl.
One day, when it came to my turn to read, I encountered a word
I could not decipher, no matter how hard I tried. The teacher, already inflamed by the mistakes
of another student, began pounding his fists on my desk, and then grabbed my
shoulders, yelling at the top of his voice, "You are going to read that
word! You don't want to know what is
going to happen if you can't!" I
was in shock. I had never seen him so
upset. My heart was pounding, and tears
began streaming down my face. I bent my
head to my book and tried again to read the word, but it was no use.
Letting go of my shoulders, the teacher strode over to the
desk and picked up a pair of scissors.
"One last time. What is that
word, Sam?" he demanded as he returned to tower over me, grasping the
scissors like a knife. I tried
again. Again I failed. A streak of silver, driven by the movement of
my teacher's arm, flashed through the air toward my desk. I jerked my hand away, and the scissors in my
teacher's hand lodged in the desktop, where my hand had been only seconds
before. Releasing the scissors, my
teacher lifted me violently out of my seat, holding me eye-to-eye with him, two
feet in the air. I heard my shirt rip and
felt an unlaced shoe drop from my foot.
"Now look what you made me do!" he barked accusingly. Then he threw me back into my seat, kicked
open the door, and stalked out.
Luckily, when I returned to my regular classroom, the
teacher there spotted my torn shirt and tear-stained face and persuaded me to
tell her what had happened. As a result,
the student-teacher who attacked me was never allowed to teach again. But the damage to my self-esteem and sense of
safety had already been done. More than
ever, I looked at school as a war zone.
Every afternoon, I
returned home from school feeling I had lost another battle. Every evening, I took my dad's war book from
the bookshelf and turned straight to the picture of General Patton. How I wished he would come alive from the
pages and lead me to victory. How I
wished I could be like him, strong, fearless, and triumphant. And then my hopeless tears would begin. "You'll never be like him, with your
dumb old dyslexia," I told myself.
I could never even be fit for his command, wounded as I already was.
I finished High School by the skin of my teeth, but I
learned to play it off as if I was just the class clown and I was too cool to
study and c and d were ok. Not surprisingly, I guess, when I was older I did
find my way into the military, serving for seven years with the National Guard
Army. I found the training of the armed forces to be easy, and it worked well for me despite my dyslexia. The armed forces
use hand-on training with instructions, you learn and do it, one step at a
time. I heard something once that summed
this up best, you tell me, I will forget, You show me I might learn and if you
involved me, I will remember.
It was while I was in the National Guard that I got my
wish. I learned that I am like General
Patton. Talking with one of the CO's in
the army of a weekend meeting, who was an army history buff, he informed me that
General Patton was dyslexic. The CO did
not know I was dyslexic but must have guessed ad my face turned to shock. The
Co went on to tell me, "He was dyslexic, had a hell of a time in school
when he was a kid because reading and writing were so hard for him. Flunked out the first time he went to West
Point, and had to reapply for admission and made it the second time." Upon hearing this, I stood staring at the
speaker, my mouth agape. Then I broke into
laughter, hooting until tears sprang from my eyes. I suddenly felt such relief and joy. As my
laughter subsided, I realized that I was also feeling another emotion, one that
had been missing from my life. I was
feeling hopeful.
George Patton struggled with reading and writing as a kid,
but he was gifted with superb analytical skills. I realized that I had good analytical skills,
too--even back in school, I had delighted in figuring out how to work a new
learning toy before the student teacher could.
George Patton had made an outstanding success of his life. Maybe I could do well, too. Inspired by my
new knowledge about Patton, I returned to school.
From:DyslexiaMyLife.org
From:DyslexiaMyLife.org
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